Whatever the specific context of their desired outcome most of
my clients report ending up experiencing a greater sense of wholeness,
balance, freedom, peace, love, lightness, presence, connection and
vitality. Either they achieve their outcome easily or they
realise that it was not what they really wanted anyway and it ceases
to be important to them. For some this may happen in a single session;
for all this is part of a continuing life journey.
What would you like to have happen?
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Attract the right relationships
Do you feel unable to find that special someone? Do you consistently
seem to attract the 'wrong' type of person? Do you find yourself
putting on an act when you talk to a potential partner?
It is easy to blame external factors for a lack of suitable partner;
the first step is to take responsibility for the situation. Unresolved
issues inside us lead us to unconsciously seek out relationships
which support or fuel them. If we do not genuinely love and respect
ourselves we send out the message that we are not deserving of these
feelings back. When we try to cover up our insecurities we can come
across as arrogant or superficial.
Gaining a real understanding of what is important to you will help
you to let go of any fears and limiting beliefs and focus on what
you really want in a relationship. Realising what is attractive
about yourself will help you to project this to others. You can
begin to enjoy going out there, meeting new people, being natural,
friendly and flirtatious.
Resolve conflict and allow relationships to grow
Problems in the family or primary relationship? Are you hurt by
or hurting the people you love most? Are the relationships worth
saving?
When we are close to people we tend to hold back less and say things
in the heat of the moment. We often assume that we know what people
are thinking and interpret their behaviour in one way when their
actual intention may be completely different. Eventually the very
sight or thought of someone can trigger negative emotions from the
past - creating new problems now.
The change process will help you to be honest with each other about
the way things are now and develop a shared sense of what you would
like your relationship to be like in the future. You may have some
individual 'stuff' to work on before you can regain your sense of
connection, appreciate the best in each other and choose how you
would like to continue.
I believe it is best but not essential for all parties involved
to decide to work through things together. I never see people who
have been 'sent' to me.
Enhance sexual confidence and pleasure
Do you want to be able to relax and let go in bed? Do you want
to experience more or better orgasms? Want to learn to help your
partner to experience more pleasure?
Sex is one of are most basic and natural instinctive acts - a joining
at the physical, emotional and spiritual levels. Many things can
prevent us from sharing this connection: guilt, fear, self-image
issues, inhibitions, childhood trauma, performance anxiety, lack
of sex drive, sexual incompatibility and the like. A sexual problem
can often have it's roots in other aspects of our life.
Working as a single or a couple you will learn to be open and honest
about the way that you feel. You will explore what you would like
sex to be like and what needs to change in order to experience it.
Change work may include releasing energy blocks in the body, emotions
and deciding to live by new values. released in the body isolate
the factors which prevent you from having the sex life you want
and make changes at the deepest level to transform them. Practical
assignments will help you to rediscover your sexual self and each
other. All clients are encouraged to read my book 'Sex in Mind'.
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